How I Acted like Myself at my Friend's Wedding (instead of that other perfectionistic person I used to be)

How I Acted like Myself at my Friend's Wedding (instead of that other perfectionistic person I used to be)

Weddings are some of the most joyous occasions, but as someone who struggles with anxiety, they can also be sources of tremendous stress. I’ve been in many weddings now, and they used to be punctuated by extreme distress—complete with feelings of inadequacy and devastation whenever the slightest thing went wrong. But recently, I have been learning more and more at each big, panic-inducing event to implement skills that I have learned through HCI so that I am inviting Immanuel into the ugly moments as well as the happy ones. 

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How Social Isolation Is Killing Us

How Social Isolation Is Killing Us

“Social isolation is a growing epidemic” writes Dhruv Khullar, M.D., M.P.P., a resident physician at Massachusetts General Hospital in a recent article in the New York Times; an epidemic that has “dire physical, mental and emotional consequences” including “disrupted sleep patterns, altered immune systems, more inflammation . . . higher levels of stress hormones” and an increased “risk of heart disease and stroke.”

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Healing Sammy

Healing Sammy

Today I want to share with you from a time in my life when God was very near to me, but he was not doing what I wanted, and I was not happy! Twenty years ago, when my son, Sammy, was nine, he had a simple case of strep throat. The doctor put Sammy on antibiotics and after a day or two he felt great and went back to school.

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